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TOASTMASTER EDUCATION
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                                The Power of Listening





             Applying Lessons from the 2023 Toastmaster International Convention


                                             Nuchanath Aumpradithpun, DTM
                                       Division H Area 96 Feedbackers Toastmasters



          “Most people do not listen with the intent to        teaches us, one competency makes me stand out
          understand; they listen with the intent to reply.”   from the other speakers, listening empathically.
          Stephen R. Covey                                     Feedbackers Toastmasters Club teaches me to listen
                                                               deeply. Listening is an underrated skill, but one that
          What is the best way to really seek to understand, to   can pay off big time and improve your chances of
          really listen to somebody?                           success.

          One of my favorite moments of the 2023               In his book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective
          Toastmasters International Convention held on        People, Stephen Covey writes about what empathic
          August 16-19 in the tropical destination of Nassau,   listening is, what it is not, why it’s important, and
          Bahamas, was the opening address by the Prime        how empathic listening is used in our daily lives to
          Minister of the country, Philip Davis, a long time   seek to understand others. Find out what Stephen
          Toastmaster member himself who once served as        Covey said about listening.
          District Governor and has earned the Distinguished
          Toastmaster Award. He cited three words “listen,     “The essence of empathic listening is not that
          think, and speak” as being at the heart of our       you agree with someone; it’s that you fully,
          Toastmasters organization. They are the refrain      deeply, understand that person, emotionally
          which served him well across his legal and political   as well as intellectually. Empathic listening
          careers. “It made me a better orator, a better       involves much more than registering, reflecting,
          representative, and a better leader,” concluded Prime  or even understanding the words that are said.
          Minister Davis.                                      Communications experts estimate, in fact, that only
                                                               10% of our communication is represented by the
          Of all the competencies Feedbackers Toastmasters     words we say. Another 30% is represented by our
























                  Prime Minister Philip Davis addresses the 2023 Toastmaster International Convention



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