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be retired so I don’t
                                                                                            have to think about

                                                                                          it anymore.
                                                                                            Does all of this
                                                                                      apply to Toastmasters?
                                                                                    Absolutely! Most people say

                                                                                   they joined Toastmasters for
                                                                                  the usual reasons – overcome
                                                                                 the fear of public speaking,
                                                                               looking for a job, have to give a

      I never found                                                           toast at a wedding, etc. However,
      anyone who                                                            when I ask people why they stay

      would pay me to sit in                                              in Toastmasters, I frequently hear,
      front of the television with                                     “Because it’s fun.”
      a pint of Häagen-Dazs Chocolate                            How about you – are you having fun? If not,

      Chocolate Chip ice cream. However, I did have          maybe you are in a rut. Maybe it’s time for a
      a lot of fun throughout most of my career.             change. Try some different meeting roles, visit
         In hindsight, I wasn’t always in touch with         some other clubs, or even try something outside
      how I felt about my different jobs. It took a while    your club, like competing in a speech contest,
      to figure out what I liked and didn’t like. Here       or volunteering to be an Area Director, or serve

      is some unsolicited advice that might help you         on one of the many committees that help the
      with that—start a diary. At the end of every           District serve our members. There are so many
      day, write down something that you really liked        ways to challenge yourself and keep the journey

      about the day, and something that you didn’t           interesting. Remember, life is short, so have fun
      like. Hopefully, you’ll start to see some patterns.    while you can.
      It could be as simple as “I really like when I talk
      with others and work as a team,” or “I really
      prefer the quiet times when I can work alone.”

      Once you figure out what you like, find ways
      that you can do more of it. Okay, I admit that
      is a gross over-simplification, and I am glad to




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