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All Eyes on Me? Really?

David Freedman, IP3

moment. Rather, it was a reflection on them, you bring your own style and substance to the
their prejudices or beliefs. People don’t always table. While it’s true that there are times that
empathize well with others or know how to you can’t teach people what they don’t wish to
deal with those who are physically or mentally hear, it’s your priority to decide which of those

different from them. Learning how to navigate people or situations you want to keep in your life.
that emotional minefield is a lifelong process What nurtures you best may not be what other
and seemingly one that never ends, yet it can be people feel is appropriate for them, but if that’s
done, sometimes even with a little grace, other the case, so what? You’re the one who is staking

times with faltering footsteps until you found out your claim to greatness, if that’s your goal.
your balance. At the very least, you’re here because you know
Fellow Toastmasters, when you get up onstage these are the skillsets you need to learn in order
to give your speeches, remember that this is to be successful elsewhere in your life. While that

often the case as well. When you’re seen for self-consciousness may never entirely vanish, it
the first time, there are very few expectations will be replaced and nurtured by the experiences
upon you. Those of us who’ve been around you learn by becoming the best public speaker
the block as public speakers will recognize you want to be.

that it takes times to develop your craft. Being
nervous is part of that process, and yes, failure
is an option. Being self-conscious is normal and David Freedman joined Toastmasters in 2013. He
expected, and no one ever expects you to get it is currently a member of Babble-On and Moser

right the first, second, or even the umpteenth Community. He is serving as VP Education and
Sergeant at Arms for Babble-On.
time. It’s okay to be scared. Just remember that

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