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         James Wantz, DTM




     “Were you ready to give this speech today?               that focuses on the intricacies of feedback,                      “Yes you are, let me help you
     I don’t think you rehearsed enough before                evaluation, and feedback (yes, I know I                       pat yourself on the back.”

     you came to the meeting. In order to not                 repeated myself—you look in the Thesaurus                         “And after your evaluation, I
     sound unprepared, you must rehearse.”                    for another word for feedback. . . and I                      shall return the favor.”
         That was from an evaluation I gave                   needed a series of three words to make                            Okay, not really. But so many
     years ago. The speaker agreed with me that               my point sticky!) The repetition is valid.                    of us know each other so well that                Feedbackers

     they were not prepared. They had a big                   Feedbackers gives each speaker four                           we could evaluate each others
     presentation coming up, and I gave them                  evaluations —whether they want them or                        speeches with our ears plugged                      wants YOU!
     numerous pointers on how to improve the                  not! (That’s how we roll!)                                    and probably get it about right.
     speech. They loved my evaluation, took                       Four evaluations allows for a deeper                          We NEED new blood (uh, no,

     plenty of notes, and talked with me after                dive into the structure, content, physicality,                we aren’t vampires. . . well, Cleon
     the meeting. I was elated that I could be                vocalizations, or humor of the speech.                        might be). We need to stir things up. Every
     such a help!                                             Speakers are also encouraged to ask for                       club needs new blood—the new members                     like to teach others, come to Feedbackers
         However, there was a problem. There                  feedback in the specific areas they want.                     reinvigorate the club for the rest of the group.         and help us learn! If you think focusing on

     were two visitors and one new member in                  And yes, full disclosure, I am a member of                    New members bring energy, nerves, and                    feedback might make you so nervous you
     the room. They never came back. Our VP                   Feedbackers.                                                  cupcakes! (Well, maybe not the cupcakes.                 have a breakdown—don’t fret, Feedbackers
     of Membership contacted each of them and                      I am writing this article for two reasons:               Not always.) I find I learn the most when I              meets at St. Vincent Medical Center, so help
     asked how they liked the meeting. They                   I believe in the power of feedback to make                    am helping a new member because they ask                 is close at hand!

     were very complimentary about the club                   or break a club, and we need members! The                     questions and challenge the conventional                     Come visit us, come learn from us,
     and enjoyed the visit. When pressed about                fact that this article is being published in late             wisdom with one word: “Why?”                             come teach us, but please come! Do I sound
     coming back, they said, “I don’t think I could           April would tend to make the second reason                        If you are worried that the feedback you             desperate? I am. The VP of Membership
     deal with an evaluation like what James gave.            appear to be the most important.                              give isn’t as good as you want it to be, or that         told me he was going to take away my

     I’m just not ready.”                                         Well, yes. It is. We need new blood in the                you wish you knew other techniques besides               birthday this year if we didn’t get more
         So. . . my evaluation technique drove them           club. We need people that want to learn how                   ‘the sandwich method’ to give evaluations,               members. Please save my birthday - come
     away. I forgot that I wasn’t only evaluating             to give better evaluations. A recent meeting                  then Feedbackers is the fit for you. If you              to Feedbackers!
     the speaker, but I was speaking to everyone              of ours went something like this:                             don’t have anything to do on the second

     in the room. I realized I needed to be better                “Oh, that was a wonderful evaluation!”                    Wednesday of each month, then Feedbackers
     at feedback, so I joined Feedbackers.                        “Yes, it was, wasn’t it? I’ve been doing this             is a great place to do something. If you are
         Feedbackers is a monthly niche club                  for so long I’m abnormally good at it.”                       the world’s greatest evaluator and would





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