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handle emotions? like anger? or fear? How about             It’s the feedback, which for the most part,

      just understanding emotions in general? How             is positive. The job is more of a mentor than a
      about learning active listening? Affirmations?”         coach. Sometimes I’m working with people for
      In the first year, I increased the workshops to 25.     a whole year. I get to know them and their kids,
      We’re now over 108. Last week alone, I completed        their parents, and their pets. It’s  rewarding.

      three more. I’m working on one right now called
      Opinions. I’m really pleased with the way it’s  Why Toastmasters?
      shaping up. I realized we give so much of our               I worked at Kindercare seven years as a
      power away. The opinions of others matter so            receptionist. One day in the lobby. Two people

      much. And they matter on ething, you know? Is           started talking about Toastmasters. Apparently,
      your dog a pedigree? What kind of house do you          a group met down in the basement at noon on
      have? What kind of car do you have? What kind           Tuesdays. I asked, “can I come too?” “Sure.”
      of TV do you have? Is your furniture labelled?               I went down, checked it out, and joined that

      What’s your wardrobe? What’s your weight?               day. I think one of the  first things that drew me
      What’s your hairstyle? If you don’t have a solid        when I went down just to see what it was all about,
      sense of self, they can just steal your joy?            was the camaraderie. And I loved Table Topics.
          I absolutely love my current  job. It fulfills      I immediately saw opportunities for growth.

      that creative need. I have people corresponding         And here was a way of creative expression.
      daily who tell me “this helped; that helped; this       There was no other venue I had which offered
      was brilliant; I got a job.”                            so much opportunity for creative expression.
                                                              And I absolutely loved that. I loved that you

                                                              could read stories, you could do interpretive
                                                              stuff, poetry readings, there was more. Some
                                                              ways there were more artistic opportunities
                                                              than in Pathways. I did one of my favorite, which

                                                              was story interpretation. I was their secretary.
                                                              I worked on their newsletter. Later, I was their
                                                              president. And then one day, the owners of
                                                              the building changed and they said, “We don’t

                                                              really want to have classes here anymore.” That
                                                              was the end of that. I currently am a member
                                                              of Portland Progressives and Tell Me A Story
                                                              Toastmasters. I am also part of the new debate

                                                              club that is forming.
                                                              You’re a veteran District 7 International Speech
                                                              champion and Speech Evaluation champion.
                                                              What motivates you to compete?




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