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Not surprisingly, the club is no longer around. We  not just the speaker. That might mean explaining
      were way too competitive with each other—hyper  what the speaker was trying to communicate
      critical of any and all perceived flaws. Certain  (manual objectives) or a particular rhetorical style
      we knew what we were doing. It was a culture  they used effectively. I see every evaluation as a

      of negativity I am glad to no longer be a part of. learning event for everyone.
          I thought I joined Toastmasters to improve             Third, what did the speaker do that distracted
      my speaking skills. I am an introvert with a  me from their message? This covers the bulk of

      background in theatre. I love being on stage.  an evaluation and includes areas such as vocals,
      Toastmasters gave me a platform to perform.  pauses, movement, eye contact, technology, and
      With the help of my first mentor, I discovered I  personal mannerisms.
      joined Toastmasters to learn how to be me. Every           I like contests because these are my
      performance was a character. Every speech was  networking events. I meet and learn from new

      me channeling someone else—a great orator, a  people while getting feedback (in the form of
      great actor, or a great performance. I was never  the judges choices) of what is effective in an
      myself.                                                evaluation.

          Now I am in Toastmasters to be me. As much             I encourage all Toastmasters to try out a
      as I love rehearsing and performing, I feel like  contest if you are interested. I agree it is not
      it was the way I chose to avoid my issues and  a perfect fit for everyone since competition
      personal failings. That’s why I prefer evaluation  is by definition—competitive. However, it is a
      contests over speech contests. Speech is too  challenge. If that is your cup of tea, then by all

      rehearsed—too much like what I did all those  means get ready for next year!
      years to avoid being myself. Evaluation is me in           Outside of Toastmasters I enjoy collecting
      the moment helping someone else become an  books and cats. I love science fiction and have a

      even better communicator.                              growing library of author-signed first editions.
          I prefer the highwire aspect of evaluating. I  I also love cats: I live with 3 and have 2 more at
      never know what I am going to say ahead of time.  work. Over the years, I’ve trapped over 25 stray
      While that is true, I do have three specific areas  cats to have them spayed (or neutered) and treated
      I focus my evaluation on.                              for common ailments. I like nothing better than

          First, is there an area that the speaker asked  to sit in my recliner by a fire with a good book
      me to focus on? This is very important. I want to  and a cat on my lap—that’s happiness.
      offer the speaker the best feedback I can. If I am

      commenting about an area of the speech that they
      didn’t ask for, then that is a disservice to them.
          Second, how can I help the rest of the audience
      grow from this evaluation? I am always aware
      that there are more people in the room than the

      speaker and me. I want to offer information to all,




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